Living by the Day

I’m just a trans girl living my life, getting through day by day, and it took a while for me to learn just to focus on what’s directly ahead of me, which is my my URL has been livebythe.day for almost as long as I’ve been hosting. It was a valuable thing to learn on my journey to becoming a functioning adult, live by the day, or you’ll feel overwhelmed.

For those of you keen on pecking into my personal life, I’m an emigrant of America and moved to Aoteroa/New Zealand when I was about 15 years old.

Moving away from everyone and everything I knew at the crux of my developmental period taught me how to cope with grief and maintain long distance relationships, a very important skill to have in case YOUR country gets run to the ground by fascists.

I’m a poly trans lesbian girl because of course my identity is just as alphabet soupy as my brain /j

Diagnosed ADHD, probably autistic too let’s be honest, especially considering the content of my blog. Diagnosed depression, and somehow they never told me if I have anxiety, so we’ll be generous and say no.